A guy won’t be able to function happily in a relationship where he feels pressured into making commitments.
Maybe he’s talked to you about your family, friends and things you love about life.He basically vanishes and leaves you wondering, “Why? “Why can’t we enjoy our relationship like it is now? ” Man Decoder: The Truth About Why He Won’t Commit Yup, you’re in a relationship with a ‘commitment phobe’ and you’re left terrified and wondering if you will ever have a stable relationship with the man you love. There is a huge difference between a commitment phobe, and someone who just doesn’t want to commit.The major thing both men and women share when it comes to fear of commitment is they are genuinely scared of committing themselves to a relationship. How can you know if he’s really terrified of committing?So is commitment phobia a real condition or is it made up?Lots of women out there are under the impression that if a man is refusing to commit, it means he has severe underlying issues that block his heart from letting love in.Men and Relationships: 5 Signs He’ll Never Commit When she came to me with her story, it was so odd to me. As I dug deeper into her problem, I learned he had just had a terrible divorce before he met her, and he was afraid of committing to her because he didn’t want to risk their relationship ending the same way his last marriage did. He is afraid of revealing his inner-most, vulnerable, hidden self to you and getting hurt after exposing this kind of vulnerability.